Usually people tend to compromise in order to please other people. Why does this happen? well because they are afraid to be rejected and that’ s why often they change their behaviour and the way they’re thinking.
But is this a problem? I would say it is as long as the person forgets who he or she is and looses herself in the process. It’s okay to consider others people’s opinion as long as you still act in the end as you please.
A friend of mine was telling me about the hair on my arms and why I don’t remove it. And she kept saying it wasn’t feminine and so on.
Because lady should not have a trace of hair on her body, her exact words. I replied…you’re full of bulshit and ended it the discussion.
Another friend of mine, on the other hand, hearing this discussion as a third party, she started to look at the arms and noticing the hair and started to panic. She immediately got affected by the things the other person was saying about the hair not being a cool feature on a woman’s body.
Me, on the other hand, I was chill and relaxed because the hair on my arm never bothered me and I disagree with her. I would not go for laser hair removal treatment (LASER IPL) just because a person said to. But other people will, for sure. Because they care too much of what people are saying about them.
So now she bought a laser hair removal device to get rid of the hair on her arms only because some else suggested it and not because she wanted it in the first place. So kudos to people who stay strong and don’t get affected by what other people might think about them.